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Sadness and comfort

In Benin, sadness is expressed with restraint, but comforting others is essential. Here are 10 fɔ̀ngbè expressions to describe your grief and support a loved one.

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Sadness

Expressing grief

Un ɖó wǎn ǎI’m sad / I don’t have the heart
Ayi ce má ɖè ǎMy heart is not well
Un ɖò aviI’m crying
Hùn ɖíèThe heart is heavy
Wǔ ce ɖà ǎMy body is not well
Ayi ce má ɖè ǎ
My heart is not well (= I’m sad)
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Comforting

Comforting someone

Un kpó weI’m with you
Ðó nù towe ǎDon’t worry
Mawu ɖíèGod is here
A na ɖèYou will heal / get better
Tɔ́ mɛ ɖíèYou are not alone
Un kpó we
I’m with you — strong support

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Mourning

Support during mourning

Mì ɖíè avìI share your grief
Kú ní mlámláMay death be calmed
Mawu ɖè kú toweMay God ease your mourning
Hùn-gǎn nú wePeace be upon you
Tɔ́gbó ní xíMay the ancestors watch over you
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Culture

In Benin, offering condolences in Fon (Mì ɖíè avì) counts for more than in French. It is a sign of cultural and spiritual respect.

Being there in sorrow

Expressions of sadness in Fon don’t glorify pain, they shareit. That is the central idea: being present.

à ≠ ǎ
One tone, and everything changes
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